STOP your fear-based actions now!
They’re hurting you.
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from Dianne in NY.
Question:
“I am a serious “take action” kind of person. I get lost in my daily to-do list, and I’m driven by the goals I set for myself. Unfortunately, I’m not getting the results that I hope for day after day.
You write about living from the inside out, yet, I’m afraid if I resort to relying on doing my inner work, I’ll turn into a passive person who sits around waiting to take action and not achieve anything. Can you put my mind at ease?
Answer:
Dianne, you are describing a fear that so many of my super-achieving students and clients have. You are also describing the consequences (lack of desired results) of being driven and taking action when you are not aligned with receiving what you really want.
Here’s the problem. You’re seeing this as an either/or scenario. Either you take action from a place of urgency and sheer will-power, while ignoring how you feel or what your gut is telling you, or you believe that if you do your inner work you won’t feel the urgency that often drives your actions. From this vantage point, you might be imagining that you’ll just be sitting around and passively waiting for something to happen.
Focusing On What You Want Will Not Change Your Unwanted Situation
Here’s What Will
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from me to you! Be sure to read this article to the end. I have a special offer to help you more.
Question:
Do you believe that you can permanently and radically change your financial experience just by:
- changing your behavior once things get bad enough,
- having someone to be accountable to,
- or following what someone else tells you to do?
Answer:
My response to this question is definitely, “NO YOU CANNOT.” How many times have you made a decision to save money, pay off your debt, stop using credit cards for consumer purchases, or try to implement what a successful mentor tells you to do to increase your income, only to fall back into your old habits when the urgency or pressure goes away?
Please do not feel inadequate if you’ve made a number of failed attempts to change your financial situation by using sheer will power and determination. Making promises to take different actions and being held accountable for those promises is a common practice for many goal setting achievers who want to improve their financial and business lives.
It’s true, in the short-term, you can produce results using these methods, however; to achieve sustainable, long-term results, you cannot fundamentally change your relationship to money, which you must do by the way, by merely changing your behaviors and strategies? Look at your results in the past. Did you fall back when the pressure and urgency was no longer there?
How To Stop the Guilt and Not Be Responsible for Your Adult Kids
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from someone who wishes to remain anonymous.
Question:
I am a mom who is having difficulty releasing myself from being responsible for my adult children. I feel often frustrated about their decisions and choices even though logically I know its their life. I try to protect and control so I don’t have to feel bad for their decisions. I often do things for them that they are capable of doing. My ideal outcome is to be responsible for myself and set them free to be responsible for themselves.
Answer:
Bravo for you declaring your desire to be responsible for yourself and to set your adult children free! I know this is much easier said than done. This question not only begs an answer for moms who feel overly responsible for their adult children; this problem shows up for protective moms in their business lives as well. This one is very costly and shows up in the area of money. Likely you have a desire to up level that area of your life.
The way we do one thing is the way we do all things. I call your attention to this truth: to the extent that you can feel your own pain, is the degree to which you can be with others in their pain and upset, as well.
I don’t believe it is an accident that your desire to be free from this over-protecting pattern is surfacing in your life right now. You are being called to accept an aspect within yourself that was not protected from pain when you were a little kid. You likely had a need to be loved and supported, and it wasn’t met.
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