STOP your fear-based actions now!
They’re hurting you.
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from Dianne in NY.
Question:
“I am a serious “take action” kind of person. I get lost in my daily to-do list, and I’m driven by the goals I set for myself. Unfortunately, I’m not getting the results that I hope for day after day.
You write about living from the inside out, yet, I’m afraid if I resort to relying on doing my inner work, I’ll turn into a passive person who sits around waiting to take action and not achieve anything. Can you put my mind at ease?
Answer:
Dianne, you are describing a fear that so many of my super-achieving students and clients have. You are also describing the consequences (lack of desired results) of being driven and taking action when you are not aligned with receiving what you really want.
Here’s the problem. You’re seeing this as an either/or scenario. Either you take action from a place of urgency and sheer will-power, while ignoring how you feel or what your gut is telling you, or you believe that if you do your inner work you won’t feel the urgency that often drives your actions. From this vantage point, you might be imagining that you’ll just be sitting around and passively waiting for something to happen.
Focusing On What You Want Will Not Change Your Unwanted Situation
Here’s What Will
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from me to you! Be sure to read this article to the end. I have a special offer to help you more.
Question:
Do you believe that you can permanently and radically change your financial experience just by:
- changing your behavior once things get bad enough,
- having someone to be accountable to,
- or following what someone else tells you to do?
Answer:
My response to this question is definitely, “NO YOU CANNOT.” How many times have you made a decision to save money, pay off your debt, stop using credit cards for consumer purchases, or try to implement what a successful mentor tells you to do to increase your income, only to fall back into your old habits when the urgency or pressure goes away?
Please do not feel inadequate if you’ve made a number of failed attempts to change your financial situation by using sheer will power and determination. Making promises to take different actions and being held accountable for those promises is a common practice for many goal setting achievers who want to improve their financial and business lives.
It’s true, in the short-term, you can produce results using these methods, however; to achieve sustainable, long-term results, you cannot fundamentally change your relationship to money, which you must do by the way, by merely changing your behaviors and strategies? Look at your results in the past. Did you fall back when the pressure and urgency was no longer there?
How to Stop Being Jealous of Other Peoples Success
Especially When You Are Not Experiencing Your Own
Weekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth
For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.
Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.
To submit your question, please go to www.wealthtransformations.com/sage-advice
I invite you to please share your comments with me on my blog at www.WealthTransformations.com
This week’s question comes from Anne in Co.
Question:
“I work on a sales team and I always intend to wish my team members success. I never discuss my pending sales with them or how much I have sold, yet my team members do. Maybe they are trying to impress me, maybe not.”
“When they do share their sales numbers, and I haven’t been as busy, I become annoyed and a little jealous. I worry why I’m not as busy as they are, and then I blame myself for not doing enough. I really don’t like this feeling. I want to understand and stop what is going on with me. Can you help me, please!”
Answer:
My dear Anne, you are so not alone! I’m hearing that you are wanting to stop being jealous of other peoples’ success, particularly when you are not experiencing your own. Jealousy is a painful emotion to experience, and I commend you for wanting to change this in yourself.
Actually, this issue comes straight out of a belief that suggests you are not as good as others, perhaps you are “less than” when it comes to financial success. I say this because success in others is triggering a negative reaction in you when you decide you’re not “matching up.” I would bet that you’ve had this feeling from a very young age. Perhaps you have compared yourself to one of your siblings growing up?
What you are doing in your mind is playing the win/lose comparison game which carries a negative judgment about the loser, in this case, you. Your habit of determining your self-worth and value based upon what other people have or don’t have is denying your intrinsic worth. It is ignoring the Truth about who you really are.
I recommend you do this exercise ASAP. Your peace depends on it.
- Acknowledge that you do have a desire to be successful, and celebrate that.
- Recognize and accept that you deeply believe that you are “not good enough” or that you are “less than.” The trappings of success and being busy are being used as a strategy within your subconscious mind to make you feel like you are “good enough.” This is a survival strategy that I lovingly refer to in my work as “small trying to get big.”
- Make a decision that you are going to stop using financial success and being busy as a means to determine your intrinsic self-worth. Let it go now. Be willing to release it, don’t try to get rid of it. This is NOT the truth of who you are.
Being aware and accepting your subconscious busy – success strategy, which is only intended to “make you worthy,” will bring you peace. Each time you feel jealous of others, embrace your desire to be successful for a better reason than to make you feel “good enough.”
I challenge you to reach for the Truth of how worthy you are and the valuable contribution that you make to others. Love and contribution is your highest vibration. It is the vibration that will bring you the peace and freedom that you seek. This is the gift your jealousy is bringing you at this time.
Just remember, when it comes to doing things from logic and will power versus what you subconsciously believe, what you subconsciously believe will ALWAYS WIN OVER, hands down, every time!
This is a quest well worth making. I believe, it is your soul’s desire to do so. It is a MUST if you want to live the life you were born to live and to be the grandest, prosperous YOU that is YOU!
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My best to you for all of the peace, abundance, and joy that you deserve!
In love and abundance,
“Dream it, own it, and make it REAL”
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